The dream: I'm at home alone, having realized that my parents, sister and boyfriend have gone to the beach without me. I try to get in touch with them, asking when they'll be back, but to no avail. My parents and sister eventually make it back home, but my boyfriend is nowhere to be seen. Suddenly, he rolls out from under my bed and gives me a ring - it turns out to be an engagement ring, despite me initially thinking it was a promise ring or something. I'm THRILLED that we're engaged but embarassed because the ring is quite ugly (a pink sphere on a band).
The background: My boyfriend and I have mainly made up. He's not officially my boyfriend anymore, but we're trying to make things work (yay!).
The interpretation: I think this dream is really telling me my insecurities about my situation with K. I'm happy about it, but there are a lot of unknowns still, and I sort of feel a little left behind or that I'm not as important to him as I want to be. The engagement is a sign of my hopes for it to work out between us, but the ring is representative of how I feel about our situation. I'm not embarassed by it at all, but I haven't been drawing a lot of attention to it for many reasons (mainly how I'll feel if it doesn't work out). The engagement also is a reflection of my desire for us to really be together and yes, eventually get married.
Interestingly, the colour of my ring might be significant:
Pink represents love, joy, sweetness, happiness, affection and kindness. Being in love or healing through love is also implied with this color. Alternatively, the color implies immaturity or weakness, especially when it comes to love.(Source: here!)
The bottom line: This dream is a reflection of my fears and desires in this venture I'm taking with K. It's tough for me, and a bit stressful, but I also have a lot of optimism for my future with him.
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